personality we all have one but after this video you’re gonna have a better one our personality is our typical pattern of thinking feeling acting and communicating so the key term there is typical your typical pattern of acting feeling thinking and communicating right it’s what you do consistently not just like with one person or with one group of people across the board as a whole alright so now what I want you to do is think of somebody who you consider to have a great magnetic personality got’em yeah it’s pretty easy to do most of us can alright these people are just radiating with personality right we feel better being around them but now if I asked you to tell me why what about their personality specifically makes them have a good personality it’s tougher to do right because there’s so many factors and variables that go into making up somebody’s individual personality the good news is that we at alpha M have done the legwork and figured out what makes a good personality tick actually we kind of did so here’s the deal we can break down a good personality into traits and if we work on developing these traits for ourselves we

personality we all have one but after this video you’re gonna have a better one our personality is our typical pattern of thinking feeling acting and communicating so the key term there is typical your typical pattern of acting feeling thinking and communicating right it’s what you do consistently not just like with one person or with one group of people across the board as a whole alright so now what I want you to do is think of somebody who you consider to have a great magnetic personality got’em yeah it’s pretty easy to do most of us can alright these people are just radiating with personality right we feel better being around them but now if I asked you to tell me why what about their personality specifically makes them have a good personality it’s tougher to do right because there’s so many factors and variables that go into making up somebody’s individual personality the good news is that we at alpha M have done the legwork and figured out what makes a good
personality tick actually we kind of did so here’s the deal we can break down a good personality into traits and if we work on developing these traits for ourselves we, in the long run, are going to have a better personality and who doesn’t want that exactly we all do let’s rock tip

number 1

is be a better listener work on your active listening skills alright because communication is a skill listening is also a skill alright when you listen to somebody, it’s not just your ears right you’re just hearing the words come out your whole body should be listening
which means put your phone away i Contact nod engage them this is what I’m talking about in terms of being an active listener and who doesn’t like talking to somebody or being around somebody that when you’re talking to them you think oh my god they’re actually listening tip

number 2

is become more interesting you can actually become more interesting how do you do that by engaging and at of Lee seeking out education information trying new things the more stuff you try the more stuff you do the more the information you seek and absorb the more interesting you’re going to be for other people to communicate with tip

number 3

is practice and adopt a more optimistic outlook on life optimism is
sort of that glasses half-full type of thing right nobody and I mean nobody likes being around somebody who’s pessimistic always talking about the negative never looking at the good and anything right well this is something that you can absolutely change if you
are persistently and consistently talking about negative things
acknowledge that you’re doing it and then work on developing a more positive outlook all right sometimes simply look at it things a
little bit differently can make all the difference in the world tip

number 4

be encouraging and supportive of others good job you can do it oh good luck I’m telling you people that are supportive to me or people that I interact with that are encouraging you think I like
them yeah I love them because I want to be around these people there are people that are raising you up through positive energy these people fantastic personalities a lot of times tip

number 5

is have integrity and treat people with respect leading us to tip

number 6

which is don’t talk bad about people don’t make fun of them and
don’t gossip people that make fun of other people or mean gossipers they just suck tip

number 7

is don’t be afraid to be yourself so often we get caught in this cycle of trying to please everybody being something different in different social circles when you stop doing that and just decide that you know what this is me take it or leave it you’re going to lose some friends some people aren’t going to like you but it’s okay the ones that are still there they’re going to be solid they’re going to be your friends and you’re going to find new ones and these relationships and interactions are going to be far superior to the ones that you’re putting up a facade in order to facilitate tip

number 8

is have the ability to laugh at yourself now this is easier said than done and until you actually have a secure sense of self and feel good about who you are and comfortable in your own skin you’re probably not going to be able to do that I did a video talking about the importance of being able to laugh at yourself and if you miss that I would say absolutely go check it out after this video it’s it’s it’s something that I feel people with good personalities this is something they all pretty much have in common there’s a link down below and as with pretty much everything that we talk about it boils down to tip

number 9

which is do things that you need to do every day to facilitate and develop your confidence when you feel good about who you are the person you see looking back at yourself in the mirror knowing that I am a good person I bring value to the world and people around me let me tell you something your personality is going to skyrocket it’s going to emanate it’s going to be like a a death laser-beam just going out because you’re going to be like oh I feel great about myself and that is going to transition and transcend every aspect of your life including your personality and if you need a confidence kick in the ass there’s actually a link down below to the Alpha M confidence course where I am going to personally help you unlock the five phases of self-confidence gentlemen, unfortunately, we weren’t all born with dynamic radiant amazing engaging personality some of us it just wasn’t in the cards or shy or for whatever reason we just don’t let it shine when we’re around people the good news is that if you implement and embrace and adopt these nine tips into your daily life your daily interactions you are well on your w