2.2 Major causes of early forced marriages
Adults hold a believe that they are entitled to impose children to marriage, girls are robbed off their dignity and chances to decide for themselves concerning who to get hitched to and the right time for it. We are defined by assortments and they also lead us towards realization of potentials. Girls should be given this golden chance (UNICEF, 2015).
Key significant identified causalities include destitution and economic needs, innocence, cultural and social norms, battles and conflicts in the society. Ignorance comes about when parents perceive it better and safer to marry off their daughters and avoid shame of conception out of wedlock. It also makes societies believe that marriage at tender age is a way of defense against ferocity and sexual attacks (UNPA, 2018) .Social and cultural norms still remain top in persisting early forced marriages. Some beliefs and traditions call for maids to be driven away under laid down accordance with other kins. Girls have no choice other than to comply. Pressure exists within the populace and girls are married off because their parents don’t want them to be left out by their age mates.
Discreteness between lads and girls also is a key contributor; this is in issues involved with education with boys allowed to school and girls to marry.
Existence of social and religious stigma pertaining age of girl marriage forces guardians to allow female children to get married in order to overcome it. Girls are also betrothed to develop relationships pertaining to politics (Worldatlas, 2017)
Countries go through various occurrences of girls kidnapping and they are married or held captives while others are marketed for marriage. This is during periods of instability following conflicts and war. This wars and conflicts’ also lead to increased poverty and subsequently girls married off or choosing to marry at early age (Presse, 2013)
Early marriages also occur because damsels are contemplated to be more obedient compared to the older ones and also due to poor children protection law enforcement (international p. , 2018)
Girls are married off by their fathers in Kisumu County due to poverty. Daughters are viewed as assets and are married off in exchange for wealth in the form of dowry. Girls are the chief source of income for debts payment out of their parents’ ignorance (oliech, 2016).
The beading tradition practiced in Turkana is a temporary way of getting young girls in to a relationship with old men. The adult male buys the beads per the girls’ family consent as an engagement mark. This happens at 2-4 years of age when the girls are booked for marriage since this marks the first bride price. With subsequent years cattle are brought as the girl continue to grow. This is the chief source of wealth acquisition in this region for poor families. The girls are forever labeled and prized asset which is adored from birth. Full dowry is paid by the age of 12-15 years. Since poverty is severe in this region girls are even forced to look for their own food, desperation leads them to look for men who can provide for them regardless of age differences. (njanja, 2017)
Socioeconomic and cultural differences vary from region to region which also promote child marriages. The living and growing area determines at what age those from the region will marry. In India half of the maids are married before 18 years and highest rates are recorded only in five states. Similarly the same pattern was observed in Ethiopia where half of the early marriages were concentrated in only four regions in the north. (icrw, 2012)
A common reason for a large number of child marriages among the Maasai community is because the woman is viewed as a communal asset, men knowingly attack and rape them without the elders stopping them. Girls here are robbed of their education and youth as early as eight years. Female parents have no powers to talk about this issue because it’s the fathers who are involved; this leaves the girls and their mothers with no choice than to obey. This is so strict that the mothers don’t even get a chance to advice the girls on marital matters before they are driven off following cattle payment as dowry. They learn the hard way in the course of their marriage. (Action!aid, n.d). The girls don’t speak up for themselves since this is not taught to them and don’t know how to work towards future for managerial purposes. They only grow up knowing their future is being wives and mothers. The few privileged to attend school receive no attention from tutors as boys do, back at home they rarely study but are involved in house work.
2.3 Effects of early forced marriages
Childhood marriage exposes girls to a variety of risks; amongst this is health wise due to early sex exposure and child bearing. Hiv/Aids, sexually transmitted infections and obstetric fistula are also health related. Domestic violence is also noted, sexual assault and social isolation. Education is halted with any meaningful job which would later be associated with it; this in turn causes long lasting poverty (icrw, 2012)
According to (Chigiti, 2018), the gynecological system of females below eighteen years has not developed and various organs are also premature. Marrying these girls off amounts to premature abuse and this is contrally to the constitution which states that every person has the right to quality standard of health to include reproductive health. The potential for STDS is also high as a result of irresponsible husbands and polygamy.
Since girls are equated to assets and income sources their parent see taking them to school as a means of lowering their value. This occurs against the girls wish although they have nothing to do to rescue themselves (njanja, 2017) .Childhood marriages cost different continents large sums of money, this is in relation to reproduction issues, increase in number of people and wellbeing of children compared to their parents income as young mothers. This is an important consideration for the drive to end child marriage according to Girls Not Brides organization research from World Bank. Death and proneness to infections and poor health is also high for children delivered by underage mothers. This is common below attainment of fifth birthday accounting for 3.5% average and failure to thrive at 6.3%, this also costs the government billions to deal with it and it can only cease with halting child marriages.
Secondary to child marriage inequality follows due to the disadvantaged female; this misfortune runs in families for long and affects generations to come. Equality which includes full cherishment of all rights and freedom in the constitution is abolished. Females are just turned into sex slaves for the rest of their lives (Chigiti, 2018)
The savagery in childhood marriage occur not only .from girlhood deprivation other than problems related to health, but also from the close partner brutality when age difference between the spouses is huge. This is a mark of sudden and brutal sexual relationships (WHO, 2013)
Due to forcing girls into early marriage and womanhood, they give birth at tender age and this is a drawback to schooling. A continuous trend of illiteracy ensures, multiple partner marriage is also evident among the Maasai and the child brides have no power to request their spouses to use condoms as protection against diseases spread. (Action!aid, n.d)
Young brides lack egalitarianism at marriage time and even during its dissimulation as guaranteed by the constitution. She is also deprived of economic empowerment celebrated by mature women. She suffers inequality most of her life (Chigiti, 2018).